
It’s hard to believe that today was my third last class of my University career. While my professor was giving the closing remarks for the class she did a quick recap of what we’d covered over the course of the semester. Something she said resonated with thoughts I’d been having for quite some time. She mentioned that we were a very quiet group in class and that she was surprised we were so vocal in our blogs. I knew right away that I was one of those people. I find it much easier to articulate myself via written language when it comes to educational discussions because it gives me more time to construct what I’m going to say and to make sure everything makes sense before I say it. In day-to-day life I am extremely sociable as well as outgoing and express myself at ease even in crowds. However when it comes to in class discussions and presentations I find it more difficult to have the same confidence and this has been a great frustration of mine over the last few years.
This ties in closely to the issue of online identities. Some people feel freer to say anything they think and feel online when they are hidden behind the safety of a computer screen rather then when they are face to face with someone.
The Internet provides this degree of anonymity where people don’t necessarily know that its you who is posting something so you don’t feel self conscious about speaking your mind. I find it very interesting that sometimes people feel so much more at ease while talking to complete strangers on the Internet then we do with people we know and are close to. This could be because we don’t care about what the people who don’t know us think about us. By posting in an online community in which you don’t know anyone but just want to have your opinions heard and have a discussion you would feel comfortable stepping on toes and would be free of the fear of sounding ridiculous. On the other hand I do however think it’s strange that people feel completely comfortable with sharing their life stories online and their day-to-day happenings that sometimes people really close to them don’t even know abou on social networking sites like Twitter and Facebook that are widely accessible. People will give out all sorts of information about themselves on the Internet that almost anyone has the capacity to see but when it comes to face-to-face communication and relationships I think sometimes we are less inclined to share.
So my question is are we hiding behind technology to help us say what we are to afraid to say in “real life?” and is it damaging to our interpersonal communication with one another?